但现实中的妒忌，其实是与时俱进的，更多的心理学家发现了一些非常有意思的嬗变，或者说原先就存在的变数，只是不那么为人所知。2009年，宾州大学的肯尼斯?莱维（Kenneth Levy）和克丽丝滕?凯利（Kristen Kelly）的一个研究就考察了依恋程度对妒忌的影响，他们发表在《心理科学》（Psychological Science）上的文章称，依恋程度高的关系中，女人对身体出轨的介意程度也是非常高的，而这类型的关系中，男人也无法忍受精神出轨。
唐纳薇还比较关心妒忌这怪物对我们人类的折磨到底要持续多久的问题，美狄亚所作所为，怎么看都有些年少气盛内心的坎儿过不去所致。毕竟，无论何种纠结，总归是要个解脱比较好。佛罗里达州大西洋大学的托德?沙克尔福德（Todd K. Shackelford）和维也纳大学的马丁?沃拉瑟可（Martin Voracek）等人2010年在《人性》（Human Nature）上发表的一个研究，就考察了年轻时候的妒忌与年老之后的妒忌有何不同。研究者提出假设：也许年纪大的女人不再会过于关心男人的精神出轨，因为那个时候孩子该长大的都长大了，你不养也没关系；而男人也不再会过于关心女人的身体出轨，因为孩子也生不动了，戴戴绿帽子也不至于给别人养儿子。
Speaking of “jealousy”, maybe just like me, Medea in the tragedy of Euripides immediately appeared in your mind. This woman who loves and hates because of her grief and indignation for her lover’s change of heart finally ends up with his children. All under the sword. Regarding this goddess of sorrow, passers-by A, B, B, B and D are also mixed. Some think that they dare to love and hate, and some think that they have lost themselves because of love. What will you think of this question when you change to reason like Tang Nawei?
In fact, I am more concerned about why she killed a pair of children.
Don’t laugh at my pain, according to the interpretation of evolutionary psychology, this is the entry point that really constitutes the discussion. Men and women in the world, although you were born noble like a royal family, poor like a beggar, in all kinds of emotions encountered in this life, jealousy is definitely a delicate and huge monster. Most of the time it can’t be said, even if there is no injury and no trace, it still has the effect of ant eating the heart, and it is necessary to destroy a statue. But back to the basics, such a pervasive and invincible monster, in terms of human significance, still serves as a bond between the two sexes, and it is related to the nurturing and protection of future generations.
The traditional academic view holds that: men are afraid of women’s physical derailment, because this will prevent him from effectively disseminating genes and multiplying offspring; and women are afraid of men’s mental derailment, because if resources are divided by a mistress or a third, Your child will suffer.
So we might as well understand Medea’s behavior as: Anyway, you don’t have these two children anymore, why should I still raise them?
But jealousy in reality is actually advancing with the times. More psychologists have discovered some very interesting changes, or the variables that existed before, but they are not so well known. In 2009, a study by Kenneth Levy and Kristen Kelly of the University of Pennsylvania examined the effect of attachment degree on jealousy. They published in “Psychological Science” ) Article said that in a relationship with a high degree of attachment, women also have a very high level of mind for body derailment, and in this type of relationship, men can’t bear mental derailment.
The so-called love cannot contain a grain of sand. This truth must be true for true love.
Tang Nawei is also more concerned about the question of how long this monster’s torture of our humanity will last. How did Medea do? It seems that there are some young and hearty children who can’t pass. After all, no matter what kind of entanglement, it is better to have a relief. A study published in “Human Nature” by Todd K. Shackelford of Florida Atlantic University and Martin Voracek of the University of Vienna in 2010 To examine the difference between jealousy in young age and old age. The researchers put forward the hypothesis: Perhaps older women will no longer care too much about men’s mental derailments, because at that time the children should be grown up, it doesn’t matter if you don’t raise them; and men will no longer care too much about women’s physical derailments, Because the child is also immobile, wearing a cuckold will not raise a son for others.
Everything seems so logical, in line with the cognition we can understand. However, until seeing the conclusion of this study, Donawi found that she was completely shocked, and I believe you must be shocked like me. This is the case, scientists tell us happily-statistics show that the first half of the hypothesis is established, and in the center of jealousy, women do find a balance between body and spirit; however, the second half of the hypothesis is not established , Men, even if they are old, it’s just as unbearable to derail a woman’s body.
Why is that? So far, science has not been able to give a complete explanation. Perhaps the envy mechanisms in both sexes are originally different. Obviously, this is a very worthwhile subject to spend a lot of money on, so scientists are very happy.