Men like silly girls. This is a law summed up by some “smart” girls. Thus, there is a reasonable explanation for the emotional dissatisfaction. Those girls with a good education background, high income, and smooth career progress sighed that “there is no better place” and blamed the men for reluctance to face the reality of “men are not as good as women” and to put too much pressure on themselves, so they chose to stay away , Or just taste it.
This makes sense, so their ideas gradually become popular. However, do men really like silly girls, or should they ask men to speak for themselves?
silly vs understanding
and Mr. Z met on the Internet. He has been paying attention to the studio I opened, and sometimes he will give me some suggestions. When I brought up this topic, he told his story.
I divide girls into three types: one is really stupid, with low IQ and EQ, which men don’t like; the second is smart girls; I like the third, they are smart, but they often play stupid. Men have self-esteem, and girls who pretend to be stupid can take care of this feature everywhere. When men are satisfied with their self-esteem, they will love this girl very much when they look back; men are prone to make small mistakes, and girls who pretend to be stupid will turn big things into a tolerant attitude. Small and trivial matters become nothing, and men who make mistakes will be grateful to her.
I like to talk in the open and the sky, classmates, I am always the protagonist, friends praise me for being knowledgeable, and my girlfriend Ke Ying, who is a doctor, always looks at me approvingly. But sometimes, after the party, I will receive a “prescription” from her. Those notes are either hidden in my pocket or caught in a book. The words on it tactfully correct some of my statements. Naturally, I appreciate her acting stupid and the reminder afterwards.
What moved me the most was that she forgave me for hurting her emotionally by pretending to be a fool. Ke Ying and I have been in love for more than a year, and are planning to buy a house and get married. But at this moment, Carrie, a beautiful girlfriend who had been in love with me for 3 years, but ruthlessly abandoned me, suddenly came to me. I thought I had been bathed in the sunshine-like love, and there would be no more ripples in my heart. Maybe, because I have loved her deeply and kept her again and again; maybe it is the self-esteem and vanity hidden in the man’s subconsciousness that makes me always look forward to the moment of saving face — Jiali’s reappearance, It made me flattered and overwhelmed. I went to her appointments frequently and used overtime and other excuses to prevaricate Ke Ying. The most dizzying move was that I actually agreed to her request to travel to Hainan together. That day, I told Ke Ying that I was going on a business trip tomorrow. In the past, as long as she was free, she would always go to the airport to see me off, but there was a “ghost” in my heart.
The scenery of Hainan is very charming, but I don’t want to appreciate it. The man who had promised to take Jiali abroad, went to the United States and heard nothing from him; and now, Jiali actually regards me as a life-saving straw, she must have me apply for a Canadian skilled immigration, and he is planning for us. All kinds of future. Because I love her, I used to be used to her willfulness and selfishness, but compared with empathetic Keying, I feel very uncomfortable now, and I start to regret it.
I didn’t dare to call Keying, so I dialed the phone to my home. My mother told me that my father had a heart attack these days, but Keying was so good, so I came to give him an infusion again. My mother asked me: “Did you bully Keying? Yesterday I asked casually, did you receive a call from you? Her eyes were red, but she insisted that her eyes were uncomfortable. She also comforted the person lying on the bed. Your father said, she will always take care of him. Son, there are not many girls like this, you have to cherish it!” I was very sad when I hung up my mother’s phone call, and a thought that suddenly came to my mind made me even more so. Sad: It seems that Keying knows all this, she just pretended not to know! The day Jiali came to the company to find me, my colleagues saw it; this time I took a vacation again, and the sensitive Keying only needs to make a phone call… I dare not think any further, I just feel that I am going to lose Ke Ying.
That night, I thought a lot, and I will not forget the gloomy days when Jiali left me. At that time, I was extremely decadent. It was Keying’s care and love to soothe my injured heart… But I am now How much her actions hurt her feelings and self-esteem! I can’t lose her, I want to go back and ask her forgiveness.
On the plane back to Shanghai, I decisively said “No!” to Jiali’s various demands. This was the only time I said “No” since I met her. I knew that Keying gave me courage.
At the moment when met again, Yingqiang held back her tears and pretended to be very happy, which made me feel sad. I understood her thoughts, did not explain anything, just held her in my arms gratefully.
silly vs cute
When they met, Mr. C declared that he liked the “cute silly” girl. He has a set of very deep theories about this: men are most afraid of girls being too scheming and overly sharp. No matter how mature a man is, he is first of all a child in front of his lover. He not only hopes that the woman he loves will give him the tolerance and understanding of his mother’s love, but also hope that she will have a childlike innocence and be able to get along with herself stupidly and truthfully. With such “silly” girls, men feel safe and warm.
I have a hobby: playing cards. Rarely when I was free, I asked my girlfriend and another couple of confidants to go to the teahouse, and scored 80 points in 2 pairs. What’s terrible is that my original girlfriend who graduated from the mathematics department was very good at playing cards, was eager to win, and was unforgiving. Every time I made a mistake, she would either show me my face or spend money on the spot and let me be a friend. Faceless in front of me. Originally playing cards was to relax, but to stir her up, it turned into doing homework, brainstorming, and strenuous. Later, we broke up, of course not for the trivial matter of playing cards, but everyone can imagine that her self-reliant intelligence and sharp personality will also be reflected in other things, and I had to escape.
Now I have a girlfriend again, and I still go to play cards when I have time, but the atmosphere is different: I occasionally make mistakes, and my girlfriend will smile or make a grimace very tolerantly; at the critical moment of victory, she will secretly give I make a code. The card won, and my girlfriend clapped and cheered again; if the card lost, she wanted to punish me, but this punishment made me feel more comfortable than rewards—she wanted me to send her back, and asked me to carry her to the second floor. To her door.
So I sometimes lose cards on purpose! Her name is Lulu. There are many places where Lulu is stupid. For example, she spends a whole day making birthday cards for me instead of buying them in the store for a few minutes. She is good at dressing up, but she never lets me go shopping with me. Say that two people are together to do what both of them are willing to do. I also like to watch her laugh. It is a sincere and brilliant smile. Compared with those girls who have a deliberate or cunning smile in their smiles, Lulu is so stupid that I can’t help me love her deeply.
silly vs breath
Talking about this topic with Jun A is the most unfettered. He is a member of our company and got married six months ago.
Don’t get me wrong! The “stupidness” of stupid girls that men like does not mean IQ. Such a girl will be unattractive to men over time. The “silly” girl I like is the kind of girl who looks silly but has a good heart. Men always have self-esteem or vanity, so girls who pretend to be clever and very exposed can’t catch men’s hearts; while girls who are wise and foolish can fascinate men.
My Ru Yun fascinated me like this. She spends her cleverness in her study and work. She is very easy-going and tolerant in her life. She never cares about anything. She is really stupid. One year ago, my old house was moved and two houses with two bedrooms and one living room were newly divided. At that time, my parents were extremely embarrassed: My brother’s family of three also lived in the old house, so now I should give them a set; but Ru Yun and I happened to be getting married. After much deliberation, the two elders finally decided to buy another old house to live in by themselves, two new two-bedroom and one-living rooms, and one for two sons. After I found out, I felt that this was not good, so I took the initiative to express to my parents and elder sister-in-law: Ru Yun and I have relatively high incomes and can borrow money to buy a house. My parents and sister-in-law were very touched by this, and took out the money they had saved for a long time on the spot to “sponsor” us to buy a house.
I have done my filial piety to my parents, but can Ru Yun be able to settle it? I am a little uneasy: it is a house after all! I let it out “talking to myself”, will Ru Yun agree? I carefully told Ru Yun about it , She is really upset! However, not for me to let the house, but to blame me for taking the money from my parents and sister-in-law. She said: “The family doesn’t have to worry about it! Your parents have lived in the old house for a lifetime, and now they should be enjoying the blessing! Your brother and sister-in-law have a low income, and the children spend a lot of money on studying. I will pay back the money soon! I believe we have the ability to buy a house. “Later, I returned the money to my family, and my mother and sister-in-law were moved to tears.
Do you think Ru Yun is stupid? I think she is really smart. Her giving up has won more for herself—love and family affection are priceless! She is wise and foolish. Now she is pregnant with a baby. Her mother, who never asked for leave when she went to work, and was still working outside when she retired, announced that she would help us with the baby; her sister-in-law also came to ask questions. Ru Yun is really good, and everything goes smoothly with her.
They are smart, but often play stupid. Men have self-esteem, and girls who pretend to be stupid can take care of this feature everywhere. When men are satisfied with their self-esteem, they will love this girl very much when they look back; men are prone to make small mistakes, and girls who pretend to be stupid will turn big things into a tolerant attitude. Small and trivial matters become nothing, and men who make mistakes will be grateful to her.
Men are most afraid of girls who are scheming and overly sharp. No matter how mature a man is, he is first of all a child in front of his lover. He not only hopes that the woman he loves will give him the tolerance and understanding of his mother’s love, but also hope that she will have a childlike innocence and be able to get along with herself stupidly and truthfully. With such “silly” girls, men feel safe and warm.
The “stupidness” of stupid girls that men like, definitely does not mean IQ. Such a girl will be unattractive to men over time. The “silly” girl I like is the kind of girl who looks silly but has a good heart. Men always have self-esteem or vanity, so girls who pretend to be clever and very exposed can’t catch men’s hearts; while girls who are wise and foolish can fascinate men.