Why do men change their hearts easily? Why do they have extramarital affairs or third parties? Women curse “Chen Shimei”. As everyone knows that cursing “Chen Shimei” can’t return his heart…
To know that it is the nature of all humans to like the new and dislike the old. It is precisely because of the love of the new and the disgusting of the old that new movies, new cultures, new products, new machines, new countries, new systems, new history, new worlds…the wheels of the times will roll forward. Since it is human nature to like the new and dislike the old, society is advancing with each passing day. As a woman, how can we not be eliminated by the times, and how can we make her husband remain unchanged?
Article 1: Strengthen one’s own quality, strengthen one’s cultural accomplishment, and keep up with the times.
thus keeps up with your husband or boyfriend. In modern society, men’s values and family views have changed a lot. A stupid, obedient girl who doesn’t know the world can’t hold the heart of a powerful man.
From ancient times to the present. I have never heard of any famous dignified and graceful lady who can get the special favor of men, and the compliment that makes men want to die, Cixi, Daji, Wu Meiniang, Li Shishi, Su Xiaoxiao, Sai Jinhua and others are clever, witty, proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and calligraphy, and talented. Many public opinion polls have found that men prefer and need smart, trendy, and intelligent partners. In modern society, it is not the wife’s job to take children to cook and wash clothes. They have long been used by nanny, kindergartens, high-end restaurants and restaurants. Replaced.
Article 2: Be fully confident.
Men like confident women. Confidence can make a mediocre face radiant. To cultivate and protect your own charm. Charm does not come from the face, I am opposed to shooting a knife in my face. I think I will never go for cosmetic surgery. Nature and truth are the most beautiful. We just think of ways to protect ourselves carefully. It is possible to delay aging. My sister called me from France and told me that she wanted to have a plastic surgery. I immediately told her categorically: “If you do plastic surgery, I will never like you again. I like the way you look. No face at all. important.”
Article 3: Don’t lose yourself in love.
Women in this category are most easily abandoned by men. They pay the most and lose the worst. If you give all of your own as a gift to the other party, the other party will think it is too easy and will put it aside without pity. Many of my male friends are divorced or have a bad relationship with a third party. And their wives are not at fault. I asked them why? They said they didn’t know. After thinking about it for a long time, they answered me and said: Maybe it was not me who came after it!
Article 4: Give the other party a certain amount of freedom and enough space.
It is very important for the couple to keep a certain distance. If you suffocate a man, he will hate you. Keep the other person’s freshness to you. If he spends all day with you, he will feel dull one day. Let him do his own thing, it is enough to be with you eight hours away or at night.
Article 5: Remember that marriage is only an obligation, not a right.
Never hurt a man’s self-esteem, and always give it to the right person! Many women treat men as their own private property after they get married. They show their faces at every turn, throwing tables or benches, or just sulking and not speaking in front of others. Go and wait, serious and often noisy, publicly disciplining her husband is not a woman’s tenderness, and looks pretentious. The courtesy and politeness of the first love relationship has disappeared, revealing its true colors. You must know that a man marries you and not sell him to you. Why do you make others angry? All people are good face, men especially want face. If you don’t give him face once in public, you will even be willing to do for him later. Can’t make up for a year of cooking.
Even if you go home and argue with him, it is much better than arguing and arguing in person. However, it is best not to quarrel, especially not to quarrel over trivial matters. Some things stop at the end, don’t be ignored.
Article 6: Adapt to the other party, don’t try to change the other party.
Remember not to babble. Don’t be a bitch. Remember that no one is perfect. Oneself is not perfect. Seeking common ground while reserving differences can get rid of the nagging women’s disease that all men hate.
Article 7: Whoever leaves can live, don’t hang on a tree.
You and your husband didn’t know each other, but they became husband and wife by accident. The so-called “natural couple” is just an adjective. No couple in the world is born. If you are together, you will be together, and if you don’t, you will be separated. There is nothing great, and you can still sit without carrots. The sky won’t fall. The world won’t reach the end. Don’t place hopes on others. Don’t put the reins of fate in the hands of others, but take control of your own destiny. This way you won’t be at a loss in the time of change. Pessimistic. Chaos is a mess.
Article 8: If you still want to lose him after all your efforts, then don’t let him.
There is such a kind of man in the world (of course, including women), who are naturally prone to play with the opposite sex to satisfy his selfish desires. Such a person does not deserve a family at all. If you encounter this kind of person unfortunately, then your luck is too bad. When you think you are unlucky, throw away all your fantasies about him, leave him to find your new life, and don’t wait for him to change his mind foolishly. And waste your beautiful year. In this world, you must first take care of yourself. If you don’t take care of yourself, then I have to tell you. No one will take care of you. Don’t care too much about the difference in age. You don’t have to find a man who is better than you. It’s better for two people to be together with each other.