Men do not want to be “standardized” management
Bree likes to clean up the house radiantly and is very harsh on his family. She asked her family to be like a meeting when eating, and the tableware should not make any noise. Once, she and her husband were “intimately contacting” and suddenly found that the sandwich on the table was about to fall. She quickly pushed away her husband, rushed to catch the sandwich, and then wiped the table clean, but the husband was helpless. When the doctor told her the bad news of her husband’s death, her first reaction was to continue to wash the dishes, then dress up properly, cry, and then go out. After Brie’s death, the two other boyfriends they met all met her “cleanliness standards”, but they were both murderers with personality disorders. After suffering a series of blows, Brie became sloppy and manic, and even often drunk.
Expert analysis: In order to get others’ approval, Bree suppresses her emotions. When she transfers bad emotions to men, it is undoubtedly terrible.
Reminder: Women with these typical problems should pay more attention to observing other people’s families and try to live the lives of ordinary people. Therefore, I realize that not all families need to be spotless, and each member must be well-dressed. In contrast, a family pursuing natural harmony is happier.
In addition, we must stand on the family’s point of view to see the problem, such as more chatting with family members, more jokes, and even playful jokes. Cleanliness is difficult for many men to accept, because a normal man will never have excessive demands on cleanliness. Wife should learn to think differently, think more about men’s living habits, and avoid overly harsh requirements under the premise of overall family cleanliness.
Man thinks his wife is more loyal than heaven
Gaby loves social communication, but she will never give in and compromise in the family. She longed to sit on par with the rich man’s husband and pursue absolute freedom at home. When she saw the handsome guy, she was also excited, so she had an extramarital affair with the college tutor. After being discovered by her husband, she used some small means to “settle”. Although the husband forgave her mistakes, the relationship between the husband and wife has since laid the culprit, and the conflict between the husband and wife has further escalated. But Gaby took a husband’s male competitor home and made him pretend to be his sex partner. When her husband laughed away, she would rather make a fake play. This scene was seen by her husband who was about to bring her into her room early in the morning, and the conflict between the two people escalated again.
Expert analysis: Many feminists always hope that men and women are equal, and make mistakes when it comes to principles. They even trample on the rights of men and trample on the dignity of men. Because these women did not realize that the family is the last territory of men’s dignity, in family disputes, women should learn to compromise, show weakness, do not be self-centered, even when angry, never choose one-night stand or extramarital affairs. Grumpy capital. Because most men can tolerate the temper tantrums and quarrels of their wives, but they absolutely cannot tolerate the physical betrayal of women. On this issue, there is an essential difference between men and women. Women can even tolerate men’s physical derailment once or even many times, but men will not tolerate women having such a situation.
Reminder: This kind of women should not be too selfish or extreme in family disputes, especially do not compete with their lover, because the result of the competition will often lead love to a dead end. Once there is a small friction in the family, first find a friend to chat first, or see how parents usually deal with the problem, strive to divert attention, and reduce the desire to control family conflicts. The family is a world of two people, and it should be cherished like a treasure to be handed down.